About The Less Lonely Club
Real conversations and community for people who are done waiting for connection to just happen.
You’re tired of generic friendship advice.
So am I.
“Just put yourself out there!” Cool. But how? What do you actually say? What if it feels awkward? What if it fails?
That’s the problem with most advice — all motivation, no strategy.
This space is different.
This space is for you if:
You’re done hoping things will magically change while doing the same thing on repeat
You’re craving deeper friendship and more support in your daily life
You’re ready to try new approaches — even if some fail (because failing is still action)
You feel alone in this and want people who get it
What you’ll get:
Here’s what happens when you join The Less Lonely Club:
Weekly “friendship wins” and “ughs” from real people every Tuesday - now to read or to listen! Every week’s article is also available on your favorite podcast app, so you can listen whenever is’s convenient
“Let’s Get Into It” posts every Friday where I ask one real friendship question and our community brings the wisdom
For paid members: Full access to our private community chat and comments on every post - a safe space where people are brainstorming, encouraging, and sharing what’s actually working”
This isn’t another space telling you friendship is important.
You already know that.
This is the HOW.
Who am I?
I’m Alex Alexander, host of the Friendship IRL Podcast (147+ episodes of real people sharing real strategies) and author of the upcoming book Are We Friends Yet? I’ve spent years interviewing people about how adults actually build adult friendships. My work has been featured in New Day NW, Seattle Refined, and 425 Magazine.
But here’s the truth: I built myself a family out of friends. I know what it feels like to be desperate for support, and I know how to build it. [Learn more about my story here.]
Ready to join the conversation?
Anyone can read the posts and listen to the Tuesday Connection Wins/Ughs on your favorite podcast app (Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify)
But the real connection happens in our paid community where you can comment on every post, use our private chat to ask questions anytime, and be part of the actual conversations.
Three ways to get in:
Subscribe to our paid tier ($36/year or $5/month)
Signup with a friend - you each get 50% off
Email me at alex@alexalexander.com with subject line “The Less Lonely Club” - once a month, I add people for a free year. No questions asked.
Ready to Start?
Choose your option above and you’re officially part of The Less Lonely Club community.
This isn’t your village. But it is the community that will help you build the real-life village you’ve been craving.
